#39: …and someone else answers

…for someone else to take advantage of.

…..NOT THREE WEEKS LATER did I see her smiling one day with a new guy on her arm as they went out to lunch.

WHAT.

THE.

FUCK.

Third WheelI recognized this guy. His name was Bob, some guy from the “A” group classes (Jaime and I were in the “B” group classes). He wasn’t even in our class and suddenly this guy pops into the picture. I clenched my teeth and pain shot right through my heart as I couldn’t help but overhear her talking about him excitedly with the other hens.

As I look back now, I will admit that Bob was actually a pretty decent guy. He usually tried to chat me up when I was in the area and while I faked friendliness as best I could, I was secretly wishing he’d get plowed by a campus shuttle bus. While Bob and Jaime spent their nights dating and probably fucking, I spend my lonely nights like a nerd sitting on the couch beating the tar out of a player-created “Bob” in a WWF video game.

Whatever the case, all I knew was that this “other guy” scenario I kept getting stuck in was really starting to piss me off. I didn’t understand it…was I not allowed a shot at love while everyone else was? Why was I always the third wheel?

What was guys like him doing that I was not?

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3 Comments to “#39: …and someone else answers”

  1. sorry, beautiful Says:

    You should publish your story into a book if you aren’t already. It’s really quite captivating.

  2. Liz Says:

    That’s so sad. But I think you should have approached her anyway. They might have been dating but I doubt they were a steady couple like the girl had been with the last guy she was going to marry.

  3. The Virgin Says:

    SB: Not if my true name and picture appears on the inner flap :P

    Liz: You are indeed right about that…back then I had it in my head that if a guy and girl were simply dating, they were a steady couple. How little I really knew then. But it wouldn’t have mattered anyway…Bob was a MAN, I was not. Bob was fit and attractive, I was not.

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