#51: Unplugging from the Matrix (Part 1)
I knew something didn’t feel right with what I had always been doing…like I was asleep and the truth was hidden from my eyes.
Throughout my entire life with women, I had bought into a romance system that I believed in, women claimed they wanted and the media promoted. People would tell men like me that it was the right approach and how to treat a girl, but all it lead me to in the end was an empty path. But yet, there was a tiny part of myself that didn’t believe in any of it. It was like walking around in a dream world of sorts where what you expected was not even close to the truth.
I wanted answers. I wanted to know what made some men successful with women with little effort. These were the men that I had somehow learned to hate, that they were “jerks,” “players,” “neanderthals.” Yet, they disregarded and laughed at such banter and had those women in bed even though these were the very guys they complained about to nice guys like us. I couldn’t ignore the bottom line…what was right in front of my eyes every single day. Women were with them and they were not with us.
Was it possible that I was not listening to the right source of advice? How could a female describe how a man should act any more than how she can accurately describe the feeling of getting kicked in the balls?
It was time to get a man’s perspective.