Escorts
The obvious answer to my problem…why don’t I pay a professional to help me out? I’m not going that route…and here’s why.
Most obvious and common answer to desperate virgins: why not pay an escort?
Oh believe me, I have considered this avenue very, very seriously and have done my research. I always wondered if it would do me good just to get the first time out of the way. No better than to go to someone who truly knows what they’re doing and won’t be angry if you’re inexperienced or cum too fast…right? I don’t even have any hangups on the moralities behind it, as long as they’re not streetwalkers looking to get a heroin fix, I will show respect. I don’t even use the term “whore” much in my vocabulary.
My first attempt into escorts was taking a look through Craigs List, but I found myself questioning a lot of the ads. Part of the problem I have with anything like online dating or something like this is that you simply can’t trust the photos. So I gave up on that idea.
I then came across an escort review website with many positive reviews of an escort in the area named Kathy, a 40-year old woman looking at least ten years younger and still smokin’. All the reviews said that her pictures were indeed accurate. Unlike other escorts on Craigs List, Kathy did everything exclusively through email (except calling to confirm). I felt more comfortable about this, so I wrote her and asked if she would work with someone as inexperienced as me. She wrote back a day later and said that I shouldn’t be nervous, that she’d make me very comfortable and her time would cost “200 roses.”
I came very close to doing it, too. I then wondered if this was common and decided to do a search on the web. I came across this guy’s long-winded story where he lost his virginity to a prostitute. But then I noticed all the comments below that completely lit into the guy. One comment in particular really struck a chord with me….
“The virginity shame is a social chastisement. You cannot overcome it by wanking in a special way, watching porn, or paying a prostitute. You are still a despicable, unwanted human being after doing any of these things. You have to convince a decent human being to have sex with you, before the virginity albatross is taken from your shoulders.”
In a way, that person is right. No matter how I lied or rationalized it, I would always know what I did….I HAD TO PAY A WOMAN TO WANT TO HAVE SEX WITH ME.
If I had already had sex a few times and then went to the escort for more practice, then that’d be one thing. But for now, I think I’d like to still believe that there is a woman out there who finds me sexually desirable enough to enter my/her bedroom and play. That’s honestly how I want to remember my first time as I look back years from now.
The Beautiful Kind Says:
April 3rd, 2008 at 4:53 pm
Why don’t YOU put an ad on CL and offer sex for hire? Would it be better if someone paid YOU? Just kidding.
But hey, don’t forget the argument that people who pay prostitutes are paying for her to LEAVE and taking a shorter route than wining and dining her and waiting 3+ dates to finally get in her pants.