Friends with benefits
Do you know someone bragging about having a “friend with benefits?” Yeah…and I saw a leprechaun last week.
There has always been a part of me that believes that “friend with benefits (FWB)” are a complete myth and fairy tale…as real as leprechauns, fairies and Al Gore. Yet, I have heard stories and wouldn’t be surprised - and jealous - if that was more commonplace than I thought. So if I had a female friend come up to me right now and tell me she wanted me as an FWB, would I give my virginity up then?
Very, very good question. I think I’d consider it more than an escort…that much is true. Unlike an escort, a FWB finds you desirable enough to want to have sex with you without making it a financial transaction. If they needed a FWB, it would be more likely that they aren’t as sexually active thus a safer choice when it came to disease. I could see there being a strong bond and trust with a FWB that just isn’t there with an escort. It could make for an absolutely cool story as well.
I still think my absolute ideal first time would still be from me earning it on my own and attracting a woman for real. But I dunno…is a FWB so different by definition? Maybe I would even kind of meet the whole situation halfway and just practice oral sex with the FWB and let nature take it’s course with my full virginity. High schoolers have already figured this out.
But then again, the whole point behind a FWB is to quench sexual appetite…maybe their other choices aren’t so satisfying. So why choose a virgin as a FWB over someone who really knows what they’re doing?
The Beautiful Kind Says:
April 3rd, 2008 at 4:54 pm
FWBs are AWESOME - they are your friend and respect you, and the difference is that when you watch a movie with them, you get to snuggle with them and maybe do more. You both have mutual needs, and it can always grow into something more.
V-Carded! » The Beautiful Kind Says:
April 6th, 2008 at 6:16 pm
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OcSportsGeek Says:
August 5th, 2008 at 11:43 pm
I agree that FWB’s aren’t as common as they appear to be - - the reality is? That one person REALLY likes the other, and that person uses them for sex, because - - well–they can. Usually, if not almost always, someone ends up with hurt feelings.
which seriously? totally kills the mood.