Class in session
Yeah, lots of options in my class…..unfortunately they grew up to Hillary Duff.
So yeah, school is back in session for me after all these years and to be honest, it feels good. I don’t feel out of place at all and it’s far more worthwhile learning something than sitting at home watching TV or whatnot.
And yes, there are indeed some cute girls in my drawing class. Although they are a little on the young side…maybe 18-19ish. I’m not sure I want to be messing around with girls that young. The two problems with many in that age group is that they either fall in love every five minutes or get too easily attached. The Friend had that problem years ago. The girl he was dating was a young’un and she was chatting about marriage and long term plans only after they’ve seen each other a few times.
I was kind of hoping since these are night classes that some girls in their early-to-mid twenties would come around, but nothing. It really is weird, but all the single girls seem to disappear right around that age. As another friend of mine said once when he was griping about his drought, “they ALWAYS has a boyfriend or are married.” While I learned since then that girls will use that as an excuse or screening tactic, often times it is absolutely the truth. For example, all the girls at my job are legitimately in a relationship or married/engaged….EVERY single one. Or look at the women I’ve fallen for in the past, ALL spoken for.
Which is why I’ve changed my thinking in the past few years and if the opportunity presented itself, I absolutely would go after (bored) girls in relationships. As Ross Jeffries said on the subject, you severely limit your options if you disregard them because attractive women will likely be claimed already. Alls fair in love and war and I learned the hard way that if you let your conscience get in the way and don’t make your move regardless of the situation, another guy WILL jump in before you even blink. What gets the best results won’t always put a halo on your head.
OR….could always avoid all that and date them young before they get snatched up. But as I mentioned above, that comes with it’s own set of problems. So damned if I do and damned if I don’t, eh? Sigh…well, if nothing else I’ll at least learn how to draw a straight line in that drawing class. Here’s to a perfect triangle.
Honey Says:
August 21st, 2008 at 1:43 pm
Well it seems like if the goal is to find a long-term committed monogamous relationship or life partner, picking someone who’s taken is not a good choice. Sleeping with someone just to sleep with someone seems kind of sad, to me.
The Virgin Says:
August 21st, 2008 at 6:27 pm
Honey: Agree on the first part…”if” a person is looking for that. As for the second part, that’s human nature of dating right there. It’s society programming that tells us to be ashamed to explore our sexuality and attraction to people
The Dateable Dork Says:
August 23rd, 2008 at 11:50 am
I was just having this conversation with my mother (of all people) a few days ago. Sleeping with someone just for the hell of it is so common these days; it’s like we’ve become immune to it or something. That’s not to say that I haven’t done it - I certainly have. Although it definitely IS a little sad, it’s just the way things seem to be going these days. Whatever, as long as I get laid. : )