And now a quote from Player Supreme
Sound like someone you know?
“Nice guys go overboard. They’ll bring a girl flowers for a “let’s get together for coffee” type of date, or bring her something nice. Not all nice guys do that but you still see those goobers running around doing that kind of stuff. Basically they try and BUY a woman’s affections with presents and fancy things, paying for her dinner, paying for the dates…and they think they know about romance. That’s what women say, ‘nice guys think they know about romance.’
That you gotta do this…that you gotta do that…and they look down on guys who are just getting laid. They call us ‘women-users’ and ‘abusers’……… when women line up for what we have.”
~Player Supreme, The Player Supreme Podcast
Original Cindy Says:
May 8th, 2008 at 5:45 pm
All that money to flowers & dinners & things… I bet you could have bought a sweet motorcycle instead! er, I mean, awwwww, that sounds like you! You do sound like too nice of a guy.
So, have you hit up The Beautiful Kind on this topic yet? http://www.thebeautifulkind.com/category/why-am-i-not-getting-laid/
I’d love to hear her opinion.
The Virgin Says:
May 8th, 2008 at 6:03 pm
Who me? Correction, I “did” sound like too nice of guy
Actually I have spoken to TBK over email exchanges, it was actually her to who introduced me to the book The Sperm Wars (despite me overlooking that David DeAngelo referred to it in his CD series which I heard a few years ago before that), and that ultimately led me to studying the genetic part of sex/attraction through other literature and studying real life scenarios. Deep stuff. I really need to talk more about it here in the future.